This season looks a little different than I imagined. As I prepare for our fourth baby, I find myself in a temporary space with most of our belongings in storage, trying to nest in the middle of the unknown.
It’s not our forever home, and it isn’t where I thought I’d be bringing home our newborn daughter. But God has been reminding me: we are together, and that is a blessing. Wherever we are—if we’re together—we are home.
Making Space in a Season of Transition
Emotionally, the hardest part has been getting used to our new space and not letting the clutter of downsizing overwhelm me. Nesting without a nursery or designated baby space is a different kind of challenge. But instead of focusing on what I don’t have, I’ve been leaning into what I do: a growing family, helping hands, and peace from the Lord that surpasses understanding.
I’ve felt God’s peace most clearly when I remember the blessing of being together and the joy of adding a new little life to our family. That peace silences my worry.
“Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you.” —Isaiah 41:10
The Essentials I’m Digging Out of Storage
There’s something about the final month of pregnancy that kicks every nesting instinct into high gear. Even in transition, my mind goes into list-making mode. Here are a few of the things I knew I had to retrieve:
- My Boppy Nursing Pillow – I love my My BrestFriend pillow, but in those early weeks, the Boppy feels cozier and easier to maneuver.
- Bassinet Attachment for Our Playpen – Since I babywear and cosleep, this gives me a safe space to set baby down when I need a moment.
- Disposable Diapers – Even though I love cloth, I’m giving myself grace and stocking up on disposables for those early weeks when laundry might feel overwhelming.
- Closet Dividers and Baby Hangers – With another little girl joining us, I’m organizing hand-me-downs by size so I don’t mix up newborn and 18-month clothes.
- Pumping Supplies – I want everything ready, even if I’m not planning to pump regularly. It’s always good to be prepared.
- Our Small Bouncer – Perfect for when I need both hands or just a break to eat a meal in peace.
- 3-Tier Metal Utility Cart – I use this as my postpartum cart, stocked with everything from snacks to burp cloths.
And the best part? Since my toddler is still in diapers, we already have our cloth diaper system, wipes, bath items, and laundry products out and in use.
Minimalism and Letting Go
Being in between homes has been a blessing in disguise. I’ve been able to part with items I once felt attached to—things that worked in our old space but don’t make sense now. I even sorted through baby clothes and donated the ones that won’t match the new baby’s summer birthday.
I’ve kept the sentimental items I want to use for this baby or pass down to future babies or grandchildren. It feels freeing to let go of what doesn’t serve us anymore.
Involving the Family
With my energy running low some days, my older kids have stepped up in such meaningful ways. They help when I’m too hot or tired, and I can tell it makes them feel proud to be part of preparing for their new sibling.
My husband has also been so supportive. When he gets home from work, he always asks, “What can I help you with?” Whether it’s caring for our toddler or giving me time to blog, rest, or clean up, he shows his love in all the little things. Lately, nesting has given me new energy, and he’s been right there to support the momentum.
Preparing My Heart for Postpartum
I’m turning a little crunchier with each baby. After my last birth, I had my placenta encapsulated and turned into a tincture, and I plan to do it again because it helped so much with my postpartum mood and hormones.
I also loved having my postpartum cart by the bed. It helped me rest, recover, and really be present with my newborn.
This time around, I’m preparing my heart by filling it with truth. I listen to faith-based podcasts and YouTube content while my toddler naps. I’m learning to take things slower, spiritually as well as physically.
Encouragement for Other Mamas
If you’re also preparing for a baby in a season that feels uncertain or unsettled, please hear this: your baby doesn’t need perfection. All they really want and need is you. Your warmth, your voice, your presence.
The material stuff? It’s secondary.
And when your space or schedule feels out of your control, the most grounding thing you can do is get in the Word. Remember that He is in control, and we can lean on Him always.
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” —Psalm 34:18
There’s no perfect place to welcome a baby—just a faithful mama doing her best to love well, rest when needed, and trust that God’s timing and provision are enough.
That’s what I’m reminding myself every day.
And friend? You can remind yourself too.
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